Loving Memory
20.12.1939 - 30.11.2023

Dr. Omaka Okoh
"God our Father,
Your power brings us to birth,
Your providence guides our lives,
and by Your command we return to dust.
Lord, those who die still live in Your presence,
their lives change but do not end.
I pray in hope for my family,
relatives and friends,
and for all the dead known to You alone.
In company with Christ,
Who died and now lives,
may they rejoice in Your kingdom,
where all our tears are wiped away.
Unite us together again in one family,
to sing Your praise forever and ever.
Amen."
The Biography of Omezue Prof. Omaka Okoh - MB BS, MD, PHD
Popularly known as “Dr Omako”

Dr. Omaka Okoh & family.
In the beginning:
The first university graduates from Amasiri graduated from universities University of Heidelberg Germany, the University of Durham’s Fourah Bay College Freetown in Sierra Leone, and Nigeria’s first university – The University of Nigeria Nsukka all in the year 1967. They are Dr. Omaka Oko, Mr. Chukwu Inya, and Mr. Chukwu Idam Chukwu (C.I.C) in that order in that historic year of 1967. Dr. Omaka Okoh was the first Amasiri man to gain admission into the university in 1961 and also the first to graduate among the trio in the same year 1967.
Birth and Family:
Omezue Professor Omaka Oko, popularly known as “Dr. Omaka Okoh”, was born in AmauzuEzeke Amasiri on 20th December 1939. He had his first and master’s degree in Medicine and Surgery (June 1961 to March 1967) at the reputable University of Heidelberg Germany. His father Chief Okouche Omaka (popularly known as OkoucheObaragumgba (the man who wrestled and killed the lion with bare hands) was a great man and his mother NneeUgobi was a queen in her own right. His prominent brothers included Pa Omaka Chukwu (who stood like his father and guardian), Omezue IC Omaka, Tr Samuel Omaka, Scientist Attu Oko Chukwu Omaka, Engr Okochukwu Omaka, among others. While in Western Germany, he got married to his heartthrob - Maria Antonia Sommerkamp from IbbenburenSteinfurt Germany, and blessed with four accomplished children - Philip (Oko), Susan (Ugobi), Selina, and Catherine, and many grandchildren all living in different parts of the world.
Education and Career:
He attended Government Primary School Afikpo 1946-53; Government College Afikpo 1953-1958 (on scholarship) and passed out with Grade 1. Due to his brilliance, he proceeded to Kings College Lagos for his HSC (A’ Levels) 1959-1960, still on scholarship. He bagged another scholarship to the University of Heidelberg Germany to study Medicine and Surgery. By this admission in February 1960, he became the first Amasiri man to be enrolled in a university from Amasiri. His period of university education spanned from April 1960 to March 1967 i.e., Bachelor of Medicine and Bachelor of Surgery (MBBS) with first-class honours. He further did his Ph.Din pediatrics also with first class honours (Magna Cum Laude) at the University of Heidelberg Germany 1967-1969. He went ahead to do a postdoctoral and pass his consultancy programme with specialisation in Paediatrics at the University of Heidelberg and State Koblenz Germany, respectively from 1969 - 1973. His specialist core competence in paediatrics includes a. Cardiology; b. Neonatology and c. Nephrology. He had another Doctoral Degree (MD) in medicine from the same university in 1973 specializing in advanced paediatrics. Consequently, he was appointed a Senior Consultant and Research Fellow in Paediatrics at City Hospital Neustadt Germany in 1976. Upon acquisition of hisMD in Medicine and Surgery he practiced as a specialist paediatrician in different establishments, hospitals and institutions in Germany. Specifically, Omaka Oko held the following position in Germany and Nigeria in the field of Medicine:
1. Consultant Paediatrician 1972 - 1974. Dept. of Paediatrics State Hospital ldar-Oberstein Germany.
2. First Senior Consultant Paediatrician (Erster Oberarzt) Paediatrics State Hospital of Neustadt in Holstein.
3. Deputy Chief of the Department of Paediatrics State Hospital of Neustadt in Holstein attached to the University of Luebeck Germany.
4. Lecturer University of Heidelberg for clinical students and postgraduate students 1972-1973.
5. Lecturer University of Luebeck for clinical students and postgraduate students 1974-1980.
6. Assistant Professor University of Luebeck 1978-1980.
7. Head of the University of Luebeck Research Team on Neonatal Science (Prematurity) 1978-1980.
8. Professor of Pediatrics Ebonyi State University Abakaliki (2006-2015) when he retired from active service.
He is the author of many books (including Genesis Euphoria: A heritage of nonstarter community) and monographs medical research papers published in reputable scientific/medical indexed and highly ranked journals. Upon return to Nigeria in 1980, he was employed as the Chief Medical Director of Hope Hospital Owerri. He later established and became the Proprietor and Chief Medical Director of Omaka Children’s Specialist Hospital Owerri in 1982. He is a member of many professional bodies and learned societies: 1. Member of the Nigerian Medical and Dental Association; 2. Member of the Paediatric Association of Nigeria; 3. Member Deutsche Gesellschaft fuerKinderheilkunde (The German Society of Paediatricians); and 4. Member Deutsche Gesellschaft fuerpeadiatrischeCardiologen (The German Society of Paediatric Cardiologist).
Social Life, Vocation, and Public Service:
He was an astute member of Rotary International and held different positions including International Rotary Officer of Rotary International the world over; from 1976 -1981 he was a Charter Member Rotary Club of Neustadt Germany; Member of the Board Rotary Club of Owerri (1981-1986); President Rotary Club of Owerri. 1986-1987; and District Governor Rotary International District 9140 (2000-2001). As a past District Governor of District 9140 of Rotary International (he was in charge of all the 11 states of South East and South South Nigeria) and Two Star Paul Harris Fellow of Rotary International. In addition, he has held the following leadership positions, Professional/Social Contributions:
1. Chairman Abia State Hospital Management Board 1992-1993.
2. Director Golden Guinea Breweries.
3. Member Imo State Advisory Committee on AIDS.
4. Chairman Imo State Cricket Association.
5. Special Member Catholic Archdiocesan Pastoral Council.
6. Governor Rotary International District 9140 (2000-2001).
7. President Rotary Club of Owerri (1986-1987).
8. Alongside his friends and close associates Bishop Michael Nnachi Okoro, HRH Arch Ewa Elechi, Chief Anthony Ekoh, Dr Agom Eze, Elder Anyim Udeh and His Excellency Chief Francis Orji, he was one of the founding Fathers of Ebonyi State.
9. He was the personnel physicianto EzeogoDr AkanuIbiam. He was also the personal physician and bosom friend to Engr (Dr) Chief Emmanuel Iwuanyanwu (a former Presidential aspirant and the current President General of Ohaneze Ndigbo).
He has received several awards which include but are not limited to:
1. Rotarian of the year 1987/88.
2. Club Presidential recognition: achievement/service award for statewide publicity/active inputs in polio plus eradication program.
3. District Governor, Rotary International District 9140 merit award in recognition of outstanding service to humanity through Rotary, in the area of organization.
4. Rotary International President’s merit award in recognition of outstanding service to humanity in the area of avoidable blindness.
5. Meritorious service award from the Rotary Foundation of Rotary International in recognition of devoted efforts for the furthering of better understanding and friendly relationships of peoples of the world.
He is a traditional Omezue title holder which is the highest title in Amasiri, and he has been conferred with different traditional and chieftaincy titles by many communities in Nigeria, including Ogwondu 1 of Amasiri by Late HRH Ezeogo U. Itiri, Ubaghala II for his selfless service to Amasiri Community and humanity at large; Other titles include Omezi Ndu of Afikpo, Osuji of Akaeze, etc.
Prof Omaka was a very comfortable man and a man of means, and when the stool of HRH Ezeogo U. Itiri, Ubaghala II became vacant because of his death, a delegation of elders from Ezeke besieged him to make himself available to become the Eze (King) of Amasiri given his contributions to the development of Amasiri. The elders felt that he had all it took to be the Ezeogo of Amasiri, because of his numerous contributions to Amasiri community. They believed he would be a traditional ruler in the status of the former CBN Governor likeDr. Sanusi Lamido Sanusi (now the Emir of Kano), Ezeogo Dr. Akanu Ibiam (the Former Governor of EasternNigeria and the Ezeogo Isiala of Unwana), Prof Laz Ekwueme (traditional ruler in Oko, Orumba), Ezeogo Dr. Agom Eze (Ezeogo of Onicha Igboeze), etc. He reluctantly accepted the offer after consultation with the Omaka family. But the vision was cut short by a flawed selection process, when the election was “conducted” without his notice nor that of his numerous followers. He nevertheless accepted in good faith based on family advice.
He is well exposed and widely travelled, and thus, has the pedigree of having personal relationship with the Presidents of this country like General Ibrahim Babangida, General Sani Abacha and Dr Goodluck Jonathan whom he conferred Paul Harris Fellowship on, and was handy in making many Governors in the old Imo and Abia States.
Contributions To Amasiri Community:
Dr. Omaka was an ardent believer in Amasiri development and did all that was necessary to put Amasiri on a global map, to the extent that all who mattered in the entire Eastern Region, especially in the present Imo, Abia, Anambra, Enugu, Rivers, Cross River, and Akwa Ibom States knew about him not only as a kingmaker but also a pillar and sociopolitical influencer in his active years until he retired from active public life in 2015.
1. Omezue Prof Omaka Oko on return from Germany founded Amasiri Town Union (ATU) in 1982, as a veritable body for Amasiri community development after Iregbulam Patriotic Union went under after the death of his friend Mr. Chukwu Inya when he was still in Germany. He has also been one of the Patrons/ Chairman Board of Trustees Amasiri Town Union.
2. He provided the first modern/overhead borehole water supply for Ezeke Community. It was located at the Orie market and handed over the management of the motorized borehole to a committee headed by Late Mr. Onya Agha. This multi-million-naira water project served the entire Ezeke (Amasiri Autonomous Community) and eradicated Guinea-worm which ravaged Amasiri community for years immemorial.
3. When he returned from Germany, Ezeke granted him a piece of land by acquisition and by private treaty at Ohiaukwu, (a feared burial ground totally uninhabited), he enlarged & graded the road from Okposi road to Ohiaukwu (currently named “Chukwu Inya Rd”. At the request of Ezeke elders, he completed the grading to Abakaliki/Ibii road, to make it free for passage for the community.
4. He constructed and enlarged the access road connecting Isi-ewu and the Uhom Bridge via mechanized gradingon request from the elders of the community.
5. He built the first modern hospital at Amasiri in 1982 at Ohiaukwu, and employed local and expatriate doctors from Germany to run the hospital. At the inception, he gave free medical treatment and performed free surgery and deliveries for 6 months for Amasiri indigenes.
6. He bought several computer units & accessories and photocopiers for schools in Amasiri. He also opened a Computer Training Centre (CTC) free of charge for Amasiri young people to be ICT compliant. To make it functional and empower the Amasiri people,Omezue Prof Dr Omaka employed an instructor from Eziukwu to teach the trainees. This ICT Training Centre was located at Omezue Agha Ewa’s house which he hired for that purpose. However, during the youth riot between Ezekeand Ohaechara the computer centre was destroyed and all machines were carted away.
7. When the Amasiri Secondary School (ASSA) was threatened to be closed because of persistent theft of science equipment’s and lack of science teachers, Amasiri people sent a committee led by Late Omezue I.C Omaka to Prof Dr. Omaka at Owerri, and he hearkened to the prayer of Amasiri people, with his resources, he employed two science teachers (for physics and chemistry) and ensured that the school was not closed.
8. At the peak of the Amasiri / Ibii crises, based on allegations of killings, raping, destruction of crops, etc., the Commissioner of Police ordered that all our red cap elders including Dr. Kingsley Mkpume to come to Abakaliki apparently for arrest/ detention. Prof Omaka Okoh invited Prof Obasi Oko to accompany him, and they prevailed over the Commissioner of Police and the charges were dropped. Among so many such interventions.
9. He was the catalyst and pivot in settling the long-lasting internal dispute, quarrel, and disintegration in the entire Amasiri between 1980 – 1982 which brought general peace and tranquility to Amasiri and led to the formation of Amasiri Town Union, which he founded and nurtured all through his active year up to the age of 80.He was the key person in the settlement of several years of inter-village disputes that rocked the different communities in Amasiriclan immediately he returned from Germany.
10. He was always like a colossus in the protection of his people and their inheritance in boundary disputes involving Amasiri and her neighbors.He was the key person in the settlement of several inter community disputes between Amasiri with her neighbours shortly after his return from Germany.
11. To facilitate the creation of Amoha Local Government, he freely volunteered his buildings and estate at Ohiaukwu as the temporary headquarters of the Council, lest it is taken by other competing communities.
12. When the Ogo-ubi Salt Lake was to be sold to hawk/scavenging companies under false covers, Dr. Omaka successfully stopped the cronies from having their way.
13. Again, when the proprietor of Holy Ghost Secondary School (Late Nze PC Okoh)when he wanted to acquire several hectares of Ezeke land under the guise of opening his private university without paying a kobo to Amasiri people, he successfully stopped the ceding of Amasiri farmlands to the businessman.
Hobbies:
Prof Omaka was a Playwright: He had written landmark books and composed several poems. He was a sports addict. He was the first Cricket Champion of Government College Afikpo (now Government Secondary School Afikpo) and the Captain of the Eastern Region team in the Marroco Cup in 1957. He loved tennis, cricket, and traveling.
Prof. Dr. Omaka Okoh was a global citizen and an icon that has served the international community, Europe, Nigeria, Eastern Region, Afikpo and Amasiri in different capacities from his active youthful age up to his octogenarian age. The great physician, astute Rotarian, Political kingmaker, community leader, and great son of Amasiri, and the pride of the entire Afikpo zone (now Ebonyi South)- Omezue Dr Professor Omaka Okoucheobaragumgba (aka Omaka) passed on quietly in his Owerri residence in his sleep on the 30th day of November 2023, and buried in his Ohiaukwu Estate on February 16, 2024 by la crème la crème of people across the world.
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Tribute from Maria Okoh(Wife)
Lieber Papa,
Where do I begin? Words fail me and you know I am a very emotional person and not good with words like you were.
You have always been a great , strong, handsome and cheerful man since I met you in 1967. I remember the first day I saw you. It was a very snowy day and I wondered who that handsome man was until you walked into the laboratory of the hospital and invited my colleagues and myself for a party. The rest became history. You exposed me to so many amazing things and I always admired you, the poems you wrote, your achievements and your lifestyle in general.
You were the best father to our children and a wonderful grand father. We all miss you very much but I promise I will continue to do my best to take care of our children and grandchildren.
I miss your jokes, how you always ironed my clothes for me, and just having you around to discuss politics, Rotary Club, the village, and so many other interesting topics.
You will forever be missed!
Until we meet again, with love,
Mama (your wife, Maria)
Tribute from Phillip(Son)
Dear Daddy, kindly rest in peace! You lived a fulfilled life.
Daddy was such a strong and intelligent man who loved children greatly. He was an active man who loved sports. He also loved God dearly. We had our own fun times and memories we shared; In times like this,I wish I can freeze the picture of our good memories and am glad whenever I could share your laughter. Now that you are gone, I wonder whether I let precious time go by, what happened to the wonderful adventures, some we did others we didn't. Nevertheless, you are gone to a better place.
I am the man I am today because of your love, support, inspiration and advice. You always said to me I would never lack and would always have a roof over my head. Your granddaughter is almost here, and it is quite unfortunate you did not get to meet her. I was looking forward to how you will hug and pamper her, but death didn’t allow it to happen. God always knows best and in everything we have to give thanks.
It is hard to say goodbye. I wish that we had more time and perhaps that during the time we had we had spent more of it together. Nonetheless I am glad that I spent your last days with you, caring and nursing you when you needed me the most.
While we know that you are at peace with your creator and that you are no more with the living, there is sadness and pain in my heart. Although you are gone, you left a legacy, and it will live on forever.
I know you are in a better place Omezue. May you rest in peace till we see again.🙏. In the meantime, we maintain the forth. Adieu D
You will forever be in my heart.
Rest in perfect peace, Daddy
Sleep well, OMEZUE
I love you
Tribute from Susan(Daughter)
Dearest daddy,
words cannot express how I feel and whatever I wish to write. You were an amazing poet which I am not.
You could write beautiful stories and meaningful emotional poems endlessly and there is one poem you composed in the car while driving to Amasiri which rings in my head like it was yesterday.
“Susan Mucana, you are my friend, what are you doing at the back? You and Selina should be friends, don`t fight all the time.
Never did I lack your support and encouragement, as you always told me that i am more than i think i am and that i can always achieve more because you believed in me. As your daughter I felt unconditionally loved and treasured by you. You taught me so many things and instilled good values in me, which I am more than proud to pass onto my children as the grow. You were the most loving father.
Always there for me. Even after long working days or sleepless nights saving lives in the hospital, you still made time to play with me which you did so dearly and unconditionally. You loved to dance and sing and naturally you made me love it too as i grew. All those memories of us dancing and singing together will remain forever in my heart.
How can I ever forget your very special way of waking me up on my birthdays with your bell to sing for me, which became a beautiful tradition for us. One that i sadly missed so much while living in Germany, but as usual you brightened things up for me by starting a new tradition where you would call me daily from five days before my birthday to count down with me. I will always cherish that.
Daddy, I still cannot believe that i will never hear your beautiful voice again, but I find comfort in knowing you will keep singing and dancing for me in heaven. I will forever miss your cooking and the joy you had while cooking your delicious meals for us. I also remember you bringing your favorite pepper yam to me in my maternity bed after giving birth to your grandson, how you took the train through Hamburg, just to make sure i get back my strength with your special meal. Which I must say worked like magic too.
Daddy, you were not only the best father in the world. You were also an amazing doctor who saved so many lives and your dedication to your work was admirable. You will forever live in our hearts dear daddy and i know i will one day see your beautiful smile again.
You left beautiful memories behind dear daddy which will forever be cherished.
I love you till infinity my dear daddy.
Your Mucana
(Susan)
Tribute from Selina(Daughter)
Dear Daddy,
I have been dreading writing this tribute because just the thought of it makes me so sad. But I know that I must do it sometime. So, I pray you are with me right now watching and supporting me like you always did until your health did not let you anymore. Through this tribute, I want to make sure that everyone sees you a bit the way I see you now.
As a kid, I looked up to you and wanted to be like you. Your intelligence and your dedication to your work as a paediatrician impressed me so much and I hoped to be just like you. Being the third child, I knew that I should not expect much because you and mummy already had a lot on your minds. Yet I remember you coming to me often to tell me that I should also have my wishes and should feel free to voice them if there was more than you and mummy were already giving me that I wanted.
I know that as kids, we all thought that daddy or mummy had favourites, but being the genuine dad you were, you would never admit it. You made sure that I never felt left out. I remember my best gift from you: a nurse outfit. I wore it with so much pride - even though we both knew inside that I would become a doctor. You said to me that empathy and taking care of patients were essential qualities of a good doctor, therefore thinking like a nurse would be a good start.
I also remember that as we all started growing up and becoming adults, it became difficult for you to keep up your good relationships with us because you were always a father to young children. Your relationship with Cathy was your stronghold and we were all happy that you still had a small girl to pamper. Later on, you got your grandchildren who you loved so much. You were the kids’ top playmate. You never got tired playing of with them. You sat on the floor - even with 80 years - and played monopoly till the game finished. We as parents always had to be the ones to stop the game times because you did not have the heart to disappoint them. I thank you for making our kids so happy and teaching us to always remain playful.
I remember as a teenager and older, you still brought sweets and lollipops home for us. With time, you realized - pretty late but not too late - that a glass of dry wine could make us even happier. And so, you adapted to that. We had our nice evenings cooking and eating our special foods. Okazi salad was almost never missing.
During that awkward teen time, we once disappointed you at a rotary meeting. I remember how much you loved being a Rotarian. You took us to sing in front of all Rotarians because we were the “Super Okoh Quattro Choir” that sang Rotarian hymns yearly. We messed it up because we felt too old to be singing. You were so disappointed. As usual when you were upset with us, you called us “black monkeys” and “yam heads”. We never again sang in front of friends, and you learned that we had grown. You had your issues with us growing up along the way, but you mastered them with time. You gave us the freedom to decide over our own lives. We had our choices to make, and you respected them fully and only when you felt that they were really wrong, did you intervene.
I think of how much you took care of me and my skin issues. I suffered a lot and I saw how you never gave up. You just would not accept that I should suffer. You even tried out experimental therapies. I remember my numerous baths with potassium permanganate. You never stopped checking daily on me and my skin. You were remarkably successful with your treatment. I remember you saying to me how much you love treating kids, and I should not worry because daddy will find an effective treatment. I am now exceptionally fine, daddy. Thanks to you!
You were a great teacher to me. I remember having problems learning the heart and circulatory system. You taught it to me so well that even my teacher did not know everything I knew. I probably wrote so many Latin words that she knew no better but to give me an A1. Today, I am a cardiologist dealing with the heart and circulatory issues daily.
I have watched many people go in my career, but your passing has been incomparably unbearable. I must accept it. Again, even with your death, you are teaching me to understand what family members of deceased patients go through.
I left home for Hamburg, but we had our weekly calls which ended only a week before you passed away. I always loved hearing your cheerful voice. I can hear your voice how u always said “Howwwww are youuuuuu?” We called each other “true managers of current situations” and we laughed a lot. Each time you came to visit, it was a pleasure picking you up from the airport. You had this special dance when you stepped out of the arrival door. Your departures were always so sad because I asked myself each time if I would see you again. On your last visit here during the COVID time, I noticed with so much pain how your brain was failing you. It had started earlier - years before - but we ignored it. It was so sad to see you fight it. But you made sure not to bother us with your problem. You gracefully accepted your future. Even though some close relatives that are probably present today at your funeral sometimes said bad words about you because they did not understand that you were losing your memory, we stood by you. I hope those friends and relatives are now understanding why sometimes you appeared difficult to them. Thank God for the training you gave us all. We could love you unconditionally and stand by you through your glorious days and weaker days. As time passed by - in our eyes it passed too quickly - your wishes and aspirations dwindled, and all you had left was your amazing smile and laughter. You made sure that even in your last days you made us smile.
Daddy, I remember your last stay in Hamburg. You thanked Mike and I for taking good care of you. But clearly told us that you wanted to go back home to Amasiri. I also remember in October 2023, the last time I saw you, when you had just successfully overcome congestive heart failure with your sheer strength and need to see us all again. You said to me: “Young lady, I don’tttttttttt want anything!!” when I tried to force you to take your medication. You said: “You don’t understand”. But I did. I understood clearly. So, I prepared everyone for the moment you would leave. I prayed that you would not suffer, and that God takes you peacefully. God knows, it has not been easy being a doctor these past months, but again, I thank you, daddy, for making it so clear that you were tired. Even though it still breaks my heart.
Dear Daddy, you are home now, just as you wanted. You are in Amasiri, where all your dear ancestors are resting. You are in your compound.
Now I know why you named Phillip „Madaugo Obaragu 1“ (an ancestor that supposedly killed a lion with his bare hands) and Susan „Ugobi“ (after your wonderful mum that passed away before we could meet her), me your „Neka“ a.k.a. „Nekanna“ (the greatest mum (of daddy) and Cathy „Uchenna“ a.k.a. „Mikey“ (heart of the father, and key to your heart “MyKey”). It all makes sense to me now. You needed a “Maximus”, a warrior, an Obaragu 1 to protect you and your family. You needed your mum, Ugobi, at your side. You needed Neka, the great mum, to care for your family and descendants and Uchenna, your heart, to keep our thoughts and feelings clear and in your image and likeness.
We will make sure that your home remains home. We know you fought so hard for this resting place and we, your children, promise to continue protecting your legacy. If in the future intruders come, we will fight them just like you did. So don’t worry daddy, just like we always said: “We dey”. I wish you eternal peace, dear daddy. Until we meet again.
P.S.: I know this isn’t normally a part of a tribute, but I want to say a very special Thank You to Brother Ndubuisi, Nurse Patience and Tedi (I hope my spelling is correct) and a thank you to Bro. Okuche (police), Dr Junior and family and of course all others that stood by him. You made my dad enjoy his last days. Thank you so much for taking care of him on our behalf.
Tribute from Cathrene(Daughter)
To my daddy, my first love!
The man who taught me almost everything I know, the man who loved me unconditionally, the man who taught me how to cook and even when I made the most tasteless food, you would praise me and tell me it’s the best meal you have ever eaten just so that I do not get discouraged. The man who made my hair through out my primary school days and when I go to school, my teachers would laugh when I answer their question of who made my beautiful hair, because they always thought I was joking. The man who couldn’t eat whenever I was ill. You would stay by me and do all your doctor magic to ensure I get well immediately. The man who I didn’t want to leave when it was time for my studies abroad just because of the great bond we shared. The man who found it so difficult to give my hand out for marriage until you discovered that with my husband, I would still be close by.
In fact - the song “who sat and washed my infant head” goes not only to mummy but also to you, sweet father.
Dearest daddy, writing this tribute is one of the hardest things I will ever have to do! I feel like I could fill up this whole book, but words cannot begin to express my feelings right now. You are the best father anyone could ever wish for, and I count myself blessed and lucky to have been chosen by God to be your daughter and your key as you always called me. Words cannot begin to describe the void I feel without you. I miss you terribly and I see your wonderful smile each time I close my eyes. Your grandkids keep asking if you are happy and eating cake in heaven and I smile and answer them with yes, because I know you are in a much better place - a place without pain and a place filled with happiness.
The last time I saw you in October, you were in the worst shape I have seen you in, but before I left, you made sure you danced with me one more time to your favorite Harry Belafonte song. How you managed to always smile even at your weakest moments will continue to remain a mystery to me. I am very sure that heaven has truly gained an angel!
Thank you for everything you did for all of us and for your grand kids. Thank you for bringing me up to be the woman that I am today. Thank you for the great childhood that I had and the great memories that will never be forgotten. Thank you for being an amazing grandfather to all your grandchildren. Even at your old age, you never got tired of playing with them and they were always very happy each time you came to visit. Making them go to bed at night was always difficult as they wanted to stay in your room and play with you.
You will never be forgotten but instead we will continue to live in your legacy.
Dearest daddy, I pray that your great soul continues to rest in peace!
You always told me each time I was going to bed to “sleep well my Micky and don’t forget to say your prayers”. Daddy this time I will say this to you, sleep well my sweet daddy and don’t forget to always pray for us.
I love and cherish you, have always, and will always.
With Love
Cathy (your Micky / your key)
Tribute from Aleyna, Alyssa and Amaya
